When Jefferson commissioned Lewis and Clark to go uncover the new world, I can only imagine the thoughts that ran through the two explorers minds… Were they sad about leaving home, excited about the new adventure, nervous, anxious, overwhelmed?
I wonder, out of all the emotion and anticipation, what did they tell their friends and family? Did their families understand? Did their wives stick around? What happened when they returned two years later?
As I prepare for my 3rd departure from home to South America, I find myself thinking a lot about relationships and how the dynamics change when I leave (and return). This is a topic very familiar to fellow travelers, expats and maybe even those famous adventurers, Lewis and Clark.
I think about friends and the family. I think about what home is and what sacrifices are. I think about opportunities, selfishness and glory.
I think about a life of travel and exploration as it effects the unique relationships in my life and why I do it, especially considering the government isn’t funding my travels and trade routes to South America are, for the most part, discovered.
FAMILY
The main objective of your immediate family is to keep you safe; mentally, physically, socially and financially. Through love and support my family has done an incredible job. This is why you can understand their concern as I continuously pull the bounds of my comfort zone and push all aspects of safety.
There is no doubt my Grandma would be much happier if I told her I got a nice job in Buffalo rather than that I’m moving into Pablo Escobar’s old neighborhood.
From the first trip to Buenos Aires, the family was concerned but supported me. They understood my need for change and thought I just needed to get it out of my system. What I didn’t expect however was that subsequent expeditions would become more difficult to justify to them.
I can explain my passion to travel and explore philosophically, emotionally and even strategically, but not practically. It just isn’t practical in a traditional sense. Most people my age are in the process of putting their lives together while I’m on a quest to shake mine up.
We all have a natural responsibility of being present. It’s what binds us and makes us a part of something. It’s for that same reason why I must travel now. I have to push the limits while I can. To begin writing my own story so I can be present without reservation or regret in the future.
FRIENDS
When I first started helping to build the textbook business, I took friends for granted. I thought money and success was everything and that friends would love me when I had it. Needless to say, I was lost.
True friends love to see you do cool stuff, but would rather do cool stuff with you. They push you to do great things and keep you grounded when you get ahead of yourself. They’re the ultimate co-pilots, wingmen and reality checkers.
I don’t want to be up-to-date on important events only via Facebook. I never want to be the friend who “looses touch” just because I’m away and I never want friends to think I’m unavailable for anything.
As time moves forward and we all grow up, there’s no doubt friendships will change. Work, marriage and kids will take priority, but being there for each other should always remain.
Although traveling keeps me away, it’s traveling that makes me appreciate this and drives me to maintain the friendship I cherish.
ROMANCE
Absence changes things. That’s truer with this category than either of the first two. Family and true friends will always be there, but girlfriends won’t. You have to put at least as much into this relationship as you expect to get out.
This is something I’ve struggled with. I focus my attention on the travel goals and personal aspirations that make me happy because I believe to make someone else happy, I must first be happy with myself and I’m not quite there yet.
At this point in my life I’d rather win a GoPro camera than the heart of some spicy Latina.
I realize this can most definitely be attributed to my dating history, but nevertheless, it concerns me.
Travel is addicting, it drives me to always want to do more, see more and experience new things. The concern is that I will always wonder what else is out there and that I might overlook a great thing when I find it.
While in Colombia, I came up with a new strategy to balance travel and these relationships. The plan is to keep things light but always have my eyes open for the real thing. Most of all, it’s the discipline and respect to be completely open and honest with everyone everything I do.
CLOSING THOUGHTS
I don’t want to travel forever. In a few years I’ll settle down and be closer with family and friends. I want my nieces and nephews to know who I am. I want to fall in love and have some little adventurers of my own, but not just yet.
There will always be pressures to stay home and settle down. There will always be reasons to not do something.
It’s up to us to decide what’s most important in our lives and to make the sacrifices necessary to reach those dreams. For me at this point, it’s about traveling, exploring and creating something bigger than myself. For Lewis and Clark it was about influencing the development of the United States.
So as I sit here using this post as an open justification for my next adventure and future aspirations, I can’t help but to be inspired by the thoughts that this writing has uncovered…
Chase your dreams and strive to do more. Make big sacrifices and get lost in the moment. However, hold onto the people most important to you or you won’t have anyone to share your memories with when it’s all said and done.
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This one hit me hard, Gareth. Well said. Nearing the end of my fourth trip away and some things are becoming very clear to me. Mainly that I don’t want to experience these things away from the ones I love, especially my wife Sarah. Travel has proven that I what have at home is worth more than anything I’ll ever find traveling.
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True story Keith. I can’t imagine being in a relationship and doing this. When are you going to start letting Sarah come along?
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Home now for a short time, I realize why people get married … it’s because life here is boring and if you don’t have a partner of sorts, it must be unbearable. Feel bad for the random 40 something singles, life must be so boring.
Got me thinking of travel, travel alleviates that but it will end one day, ideally find a wife / long term gf who does the same thing / appreciates / values same things -> Easier said than done.
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Yeah, easier said than done. I just hope when I slow down they’ll be someone out there willing to put up with me.
Refreshing, honest post. As an expat, I have struggled to come to terms that life carries on without me back home, and not being in the loop really sucks sometimes. But the experience I’m having living in another country/culture/language is priceless, and I know my real friends will be there waiting when I get back to pick it up where we left off.
It’s those friends that allow me to keep traveling. They support me in everything I do and are ready to party when I return. Definitely couldn’t do it without them.
wow man this is the essence of it, you put into words what many could not and I appreciate it it
As the ‘Great One’ Wayne Gretzky once said, “do what you love, and everything else will fall in place”
Very true. This kind of journey does require a lot of sacrifice. I wish my close friends could join me on my trips overseas. But you can’t wait or force everyone to be on the same page as you. So in the mean time, you have to do what’s important to you and have no regrets. At least we have the rest of our lives to settle down.
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Absolutely Gerard. I try to bring one friend in on every trip, give them a little taste of this life. And you’re right, the rest of our lives to settle down.
Great post my man. It is funny that the first trip was easiest to tell your family about. I fear that will be the same with us. Even though we have no immediate plans to take off again, we will at some point, and it will most likely be with child(ren). I shudder to think of the look on our parents’ faces when we tell them not only are we taking off again, but we’re taking their grandkids with us.
Love the honesty in this post.
Thanks Adam, I can’t wait to see your little ones running around the globe, yachting around Vancouver maybe?
Great post. Was something I struggled with myself when I returned home from South America in 2006. I knew life would carry on without me while i was gone, but actually SEEING that it had was a real shock. It’s such a fine balance, traveling and maintaining relationships back home. thank god for skype
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This one really hits home! I flounder between wanting stability (relationships/house/paycheck) and the nomadic, untethered life I have now. If there’s a way to have both I haven’t figured it out… maybe that’s what I’m looking for on the road! Glad I found your blog!
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I definitely need to read something like this at this point in my life, so I humbly and appreciatively want to thank you for writing this and being so open about your thoughts and feelings.
Great post Gareth I honestly couldn’t have said it better. I am only 7 months into my 2 YEAR RTW TRIP & I am slowly realizing these things. I don’t miss home, but I miss being apart of my life at home. I too hate that I am watching my friends & families life through Facebook. I know they understand what I am doing, but at the same time I know they can;t stop living while I am gone. I know my friends & families will always be there, but it’s not the same. Right now I couldn’t be happier I am living my dream and exploring the world like I have always wanted too. As how I will feel a year from now who knows, but for now I will continue to keep in touch with them and mail them postcards. It’s the least I can do while I am on the road.
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What a moving and honest post Gareth. My situation is easier because I travel with my partner and best friend, but when we do leave our mothers in tears we feel so guilty. You can’t let it stop you doing what you love though.
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Great thoughts Gareth. When I was away for 2+ years, I loved the adrenaline of always new stuff and new people. When I was back home I missed it and craved it. But after too much time away, I too knew I didn’t want to be a lifelong nomad. I wanted some roots. Now I’ve got the apartment in Chicago, but I go away for a month or so at a time. Right now I’ve been gone 6 weeks. For me now, it’s the perfect combo. Either way you look at it…we are so lucky we are really ‘choosing’ the life we want.
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And you said it so well!
I struggle a lot, more than anything with the friendship aspect. By having gone home a couple of times now I know that I do have true friends who will always be there and support me, even if I don’t talk to them that often while I’m away. Sometimes it’s tough to remember that though when I’m away and missing out on their lives.
I’m lucky that my family supports me so much in what I do and are more than supportive but quite happy for me as well. It was definitely 10x harder to leave them this time than last time though.
I want to settle down one day as well, and I’ve really realized that lately. The problem is that I don’t know where and I have an international boyfriend to consider in the equation!
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Great post! Traveling makes relationships insanely difficult. Maintaining long-term friendships with me has been the hardest of all, and something I’ve failed at miserably. I hope you have better fortune in that area than I have 🙂
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Totally agree with you here, especially about the loved ones. Some of my friends don’t really understand “traveling”. They understand vacations, but long term travel, they don’t get. Luckily I have a boyfriend who loves it just as much as I do, but I don’t want to see the world without someone.
However, I do love your comment about “right now I’d rather win a gopro camera then the heart of a latina woman” too funny. My boyfriend might say the same thing- those cameras are awesome!
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Great post Gareth. I definitely have never been away on a trip as long as you have but I know where you are coming from. I think I am on board with you in life with everything you have had to say. I’ll always keep my friends and family close and will stay in touch but another awesome thing that is happening is that I am meeting many more awesome people on my travels that I am also now cherishing and hope to know and stay in touch with and be there for when needed 🙂
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Travel has definitely made me realize the importance of good friendships and family. You find out who really does care about you and is there to support you.
As for having a relationship, that’s one I haven’t figured out. I’m a relationship person. If it’s not meaningful, I’d rather be alone.
Great post. With any dream comes great sacrifices and relationshps are the ones that hit the hardest. I always think of the wonderful new friends I make along the journey, who can never replace the old, but enrich my life nonetheless.
For us now, the biggest sacrifice we make is taking our children away from the grandparents and extended family.The way we look at it though is that if we can’t be happy then we are no good to anyone, especially our children. You can find the balance to make it work.
And in terms of romance, you just might meet a girl who is like you and wants to explore the world with you. Lucky for me I found that in Craig and we’ve been doing it together for 10 years now. There is no greater bond!
Great post and you hit some good points there. Even though my family and friends support me, it`s still difficult to miss out on important events, like birthdays or weddings… And as for relationships, I can only hope to be as lucky as Caz, who met her match and together they are having their own travel adventure!
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I know exactly how you feel. It was these same thoughts about priorities in life that inspired me to write my Elmer Fudd guide to balancing travel, family, work, and life. It’s all about priorities and what matters.
When things settle down, you get a job, get married, and have kids, it makes it more difficult to travel (though not impossible). Like you, I still have that passion to travel and put a lot of effort and work into it. However, I wear many hats and as life changes, so does our perspective. The things that used to matter don’t seem as big of a deal any more. For me, family is the most important and I work hard to make sure my life reflects that. My passions don’t die but I just have to choose which passions come first.
In the end, it is all about priorities. No one can tell you what thing is more important than another. You have to decide that. It does get more complicated as life gets older and things change. However, as long as you decide what is important and your life reflects that, you will be OK.
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I love this post. I was there a few years when I left my own well-paid management consulting gig to live like a vagrant in the Caribbean. I have ZERO regret about it. It was the best thing I ever did and now I have a more settled-down life without feeling the restlessness I did at 23…and 24…and 25 :). And as for that long-term relationship, you sound like you know what you want and you will go for it when the time is right. Great writing!
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It seems like you have a pretty good grasp of what you want long-term in your life. I think it is true that you need to do certain things for yourself before you can commit to “settling down,” however you want to define that. I think having your own adventures will make you much more content to spend low-key time with family and friends in the future.
Great post! I just left home to travel about 6 weeks ago and evrything you said really hit home. My parents also think this is something I just need to get out of my system and are already making plans for when i return. At this point, I don’t have the heart to break it to them that I don’t know if/when I want to necessarily return, at least not necessarily to Chicago.
Friends are tough too – many are interested in my trip now and are supportive, but I don’t know how long that will last. I already feel a lot of drifting apart and it makes me sad.
Oh, and I have a 3 year old niece and 1 year old nephew and I definitely want to make sure they remember who I am! 🙂
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I StumbledUpon your blog, and just wanted to thank you for your thoughts! I don’t have many friends who travel as extensively, and it’s always great to hear a new perspective! I’m in line to do the Peace Corps (Morocco) starting in October, and you have definitely given me some food for thought.
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Good info! It’s great to travel while you can. Everything else will fall into place in its right time.
Ah. This. I’m twenty four now, and I originally left home (NZ) in November of 2010. In every regard it was one of the best decisions I made, but I wonder if I’m in some way sabotaging my future. I flick through emotions and have considered, on numerous occasions, that if I /ever/ want to get married I probably should go home, set up camp and wait… but, I’d be giving up everything I love.
Friends and family will always be there, but, ah… I’d like my own family one day, I just gotta see the rest of the world, first.
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We have been thinking about exactly the same thing recently, so far we have combined a couple of ‘up to 3 month’ long trips with a few months at home catching up with family friends etc.
This has worked perfectly for us but now we are planning a trip where we will be away for a year plus, lucky for us we are married (and both LOVE travelling) so we have each other but we will still miss family and friends.
I say travel while you can!
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Great post. I can relate to everything you said except the part about getting travel out of your system. I haven’t done that yet. But I have formed a family and have children, a husband and parents who are dependent on me. It makes it difficult to leave sometimes, despite the fact that I never really go away for more than a few weeks. But that seems hard enough. I get tears from my daughter, guilt trips from the others, and all I can think is: it’s you or me. One of us is going to cry if I get on that plane, and the other will cry if I don’t.
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i dont know who you are, im not even sure how i stumbled across this page, but i feel like you just wrote my life story. thank you. (im from buffalo, currently in colombia)
Well said! Haven’t been on here in a while but nice to stop in and see what you’re up to. Hope all is well!
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I think you already must be doing a good job at balancing travel and relationships by recognizing what people in your life must feel. My sister lived in Nepal for two years and is in the process of figuring out financial means so she can move back. My family and I try to be supportive, but deep down we love her, so obviously want her closer to home. But also since we love her, we want her to be happy and know that living the expat lifestyle right now makes her extremely happy.
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I know exactly what you are saying. While with technology it is easy to stay in touch with family and friends, it’s basically impossible to not drift. They have their life and you have yours and the longer you are away the greater the distance is between them.
It’s a price to pay, but one I believe is worth it considering all the positives you get from travel:)
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Thank you for this post. I’ve been reading a lot of posts about traveling lately, and definitely have dreams of more travel. My longest trip away on my own was 4 months, and I learned so much about myself. One of the things I definitely learned was how important my family is to me. I had such a wonderful experience in so many ways, but still called my family often (luckily time change wasn’t much) to share it with them. I have extreme wanderlust, and have been contemplating a year long trip. I’ve decided a shorter trip might be good for me… because of my close ties with family and now a great relationship that would be severed if I left.
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How i got my Husband back Thanks to Lord Alika for bringing back my Husband ,and brought great joy to my family??? My name is Kathryn Louise, My Ex-Husband dumped me two weeks ago after I accused him of seeing someone else and insulting him. I want him back in my life but he refuse to have any contact with me. I was so confuse and don’t know what to do, so I reach to the internet for help and I saw a testimony of how a spell caster help people to get their ex back so I contact the spell caster and explain my problem to him and he cast a spell for me and assure me of 48hours that my ex will return to me and to my greatest surprise the third day my ex came knocking on my door and beg for forgiveness. I am so happy that my love is back again and not only that, we are about to get married. Once again thank you Lord Alika , You are truly talented and gifted. web:http://lordalikaspelltemp8.wix.com/http is the only answer. He can be of great help and I will not stop publishing him because he is a wonderful man.Email: lordalikaspelltemple@yahoo.co.uk or +19206246318. web:http://lordalikaspelltemp8.wix.com/http
I never believed in spell casting, but After 6 years of dating, I still imagine how Dr Aza brought my ex lover back to me in just 24 hour. No one could have ever made me believe that there is a real spell caster that really work. am sandra by name,I want to quickly tell the world that there is a real on line spell caster that is powerful and genuine, His name is Dr Aza, He helped me recently to reunite my relationship when my ex lover who left me, When i contacted Dr Aza he cast a love spell for me and my ex lover who said he doesn’t have anything to do with me again, he called me and started begging me. he is back now with so much love and caring. today i am glad to let you all know that this spell caster have the powers of bring lovers back. because i am now happy with my lover,and the most surprise,is that our love is very strong,every day is happiness and joy. and there is nothing like been with the man you love.i am so happy my love is back to me with the help of Dr.Aza if you have similar problem i will advice you to contact him ,he is there to help you and put a smile on your face. his email: azaspellcaster@gmail.com or you can whats app his line:+2348107155060
OMG!! This is certainly a shocking and a genuine Testimony..I visited a forum here on the internet on the 20TH OF July 2016, And I saw a marvelous testimony of this powerful and great spell caster called DR Papa on the forum..I never believed it, because I never heard nor learnt anything about magic before.. Not a soul would have been able to influence me about magical spells, not until DR Papa did it for me and restored my marriage of 8 years back to me and brought my spouse back to me in the same 48hours just as I have read on the internet..I was truly astonished and shocked when my husband knelt down begging for forgiveness and for me to accept him back.. I am really short of expressions, and I don’t know how much to convey my appreciation to you DR Papa, you are a God sent to me and my entire family.. Here is his website: www(DOT)supremetemple(DOT)com His Email: supremetemple(AT)hotmail(DOT)com
I lost my 2 years relationship during August 2016. My ex left me with so many pains and since then i have been heart broken and shattered. I have contacted more than six spell casters and three of them has rip me off my money without any result. I have Emailed so many sites online looking for a good spell caster till i was directed by a 22 years old girl to dr,zack balo of wiseindividualspell@gmail.com At first i never believed him because he was requesting for some amount of money to buy items, it took him three weeks to convince me and something occur to mind and i said let me give him a trial. I was very shocked when Kelly called after 3 days that i sent dr,zack balo the items money. He apologies for all he has done wrong and i am very happy that we are together today because he proposed to me last night. I will advise you contact Email: wiseindividualspell@gmail.com or call him on this number +2348078927387 because he has done wonders in my life and i believe he can help you out in any kind of problem.
Hello friends, I never believed in love spells,I want to share my testimony and how grateful I am since my lover came back to me because of the great help from a powerful spell caster Dr.OGUDO whose email address is [dr.ogudoherbalspelltemple@hotmail.com ] rendered to me. My husband broke up with me on the first week of October last year because she thought I was cheating on him, he told me that her friends has been telling her that I have been seeing someone else when she is not around. I tried to make him understand that him friends are lying to her but she did not give me the chance to explain to her this was how she left me. After a month of our breakup I tried to live a normal life without him but it was very hard for me to cope then I decided to contact Dr.OGUDO after seeing several testimonies about his work every single blog I log into via his email address
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My life is back. i need to tell my great testimony to the word abut Dr.OGUDO… I want to say thanks to Dr. OGUDO for taking time to help me do a cast spell that brings back my ex lover{now husband},who suddenly lost interest in me after three month of engagement,but today we are married with one kid and we are more happier than never before,i was truly flabbergasted and shocked when my ex lover kneel down begging for forgiveness and for me to accept him back.. I am really short of words and joyful, and i don’t know how much to convey my appreciation to you Dr.OGUDO, you are a Gods sent to restore broken relationship.he deeply enjoy helping people achieve their desires, find true love,getting their ex lovers back,stop abusive relationships,find success,attract happiness,find soul mates and more,contact him today. and let him show you the wonders and amazement of his Love Spell System. He deliver results at his best in real spell casting. Email: dr.ogudoherbalspelltemple@gmail.com or dr.ogudoherbalspelltemple@hotmail.com dr.ogudoherbalspelltemple101@yahoo.com https://web.facebook.com/dr.ogudoherbalspelltemple/?skip_nax_wizard=true or call Whats App Number +2349031726182 or call +2348156739654 Thank you for your good work you are doing for people who need help in this word,Thank you so much for what you did in my life.GOD BLESS YOU.
I never believed in spells and magic until I experienced one sometime ago and it really worked for me.I was in love with this guy and he was in love with me too for 2years and we where making preparations to get married but to my surprise,his parents didn’t want his hand in the marriage cos of the religious difference.I was about loosing my man to another lady under the influence of his parents until I met a spell caster on net that claimed he can help me out.He helped me cast a very strong spell that helped change his parents mind and i noticed also that my mans love for me has greatly increased. We are happily married now. People with similar problems can contact the spell caster via eduduzadsontemple@yahoo.com
I never believed in spell casting, but After 6 years of dating, I still imagine how Dr Aza brought my ex lover back to me in just 24 hour. No one could have ever made me believe that there is a real spell caster that really work. am sandra by name,I want to quickly tell the world that there is a real on line spell caster that is powerful and genuine, His name is Dr Aza, He helped me recently to reunite my relationship when my ex lover who left me, When i contacted Dr Aza he cast a love spell for me and my ex lover who said he doesn’t have anything to do with me again, he called me and started begging me. he is back now with so much love and caring. today i am glad to let you all know that this spell caster have the powers of bring lovers back. because i am now happy with my lover,and the most surprise,is that our love is very strong,every day is happiness and joy. and there is nothing like been with the man you love.i am so happy my love is back to me with the help of Dr.Aza if you have similar problem i will advice you to contact him ,he is there to help you and put a smile on your face. his email: azaspellcaster@gmail.com or you can whats App his line:+2348107155060
How will i have done it all if not for the help of Dr.Okeyto..Hello friends..i never believe and tough that me and my ex husband could ever come back and live life happily again after been divorce for years..I never believed in Love Spells or Magics until I met this special spell caster when, i contacted this man called .Dr Okeyto. me and my husband was going on a divorce..i thought it was a joke and when my husband came back from work he tender to me a divorce letter and he packed all my properties away from is house..i ran mad and i tried all i could to have him back because i really loved him so much even when he hurt me and i really want him back but all did not work out..i was lonely for almost 5years.So when i told the spell caster what happened he said he will help me and he asked for his full name and his picture..i gave him that..At first i was skeptical but i have to gave him a try cos i have tried so many spell casters and there was no solution.so when he finished with the readings,he got back to me that him is with a woman and that woman is the reason why he left me.The spell caster said he will help me with a powerful spell that will surely bring him back,but i never believe all this he told me i will see a positive result within 24 hour..24 hour later after the spell has been cast,him called me himself and came to me apologizing and him told me he will come back to me..I cant believe this,it was like a dream cos i never believe this will work out after trying so many spell casters and there was no solution..The spell caster is so powerful and after that he helped me with a pregnancy spell and i got pregnant again ..we are now happy been together again and with lovely kids..This spell caster has really changed my life and i will forever be thankful to him..he has helped many friends too with similar problem and they are happy and thankful to him..This Dr Okeyto is indeed the most powerful spell caster that i have ever experienced in life..Am Posting this to the Forum in case there is anyone who has similar problem and still looking for a way out.you can reach him here.[dr.okeytospelltemple@gmail.com] or contact him on his number +2349050141440/whats-app..and his page https://web.facebook.com/Drokeyto-help-care-1769862086588278/?skip_nax_wizard=true ../..Website: http://drokeytospelltempl.wix.com/temple or contact him on his number +2349050141440 he has help many friends willing n ever ready to help.okay. This is what i want to tell you all out there,That is thinking that all hope is lost
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He has done it again.i want to let the world know about Dr porosky the Great spell caster that brought back my Ex wife to me when i thought all hope was lost. Dr porosky used his powerful spell to put a smile on my face by bring back my woman with his spell, at first i thought i was dreaming when my wife came back to me on her knees begging me to forgive her and accept her back and even since then she loves me more than i ever expected so i made a vow to my self that i will let the World know about Dr porosky because he is a great man. Do you have problems in your relationship ? have your partner broke up with you and you still love and want him or her back ? Do you have problem with your finance ? or do you need help of any kind then contact Dr porosky today for i give you 100% guarantee that he will help you just as he helped me. Dr porosky email address is:Drporoskysolutioncentre@gmail.com
I’m clinton from USA I am out here to spread this good news to the entire world on how I got my wife back.I was going crazy when my love left me for another man last month, But when i meet a friend that introduce me to DR Ahaumerei the great messenger to the oracle that he serve,His email drokakalovespelltemple@gmail.com I narrated my problem to DR Ahaumerei about how my wife left me and also how i needed to get a job in a very big company.He only said to me that i have come to the right place were i will be getting my wife without any side effect.He told me what i need to do,After it was been done,In the next 2 days,My wife called me on the phone and was saying sorry for living me before now and also in the next one week after my wife called me to be pleading for forgiveness,I was called for interview in my desired company were i needed to work as the managing director..I am so happy and overwhelmed that i have to tell this to the entire world to contact DR Ahaumerei is Email Via,(drokakalovespelltemple@gmail.com and get all your problem solve..No problem is too big for him to solve..Contact him direct on,,(DR DROKAKALOVESPELLTEMPLE@GMAIL.COM) and get your problems solve like me
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. Thanks to those who has been sharing exulting reviews about Dr. okosun. Their reviews helped me resolve my relationship issues. I’m so excited to also share mine. My lover, our friends and families are all happy for my brave work to get him back. Since after the spell, we’ve excelled beyond measure. 9 months after breakup, my ex was still hunting me inside even when I moved on 2 months after. I couldn’t get him off my mind. I decided one day to look over Facebook to see his face again. I was wounded inside again after seeing how gorgeous and happy he was. I’ve always know he’s my soul mate before the issues that caused our breakup. We do better together because we motive each other. The reviews I carefully read about Dr. okosun.Love Temple gave me great hope and assurance that it’s not too late to get back my soul mate. dr.okosun proved to me after the love spell that the reviews about him and his spell are correct after bringing back my Hero within 4 days of powerful spell work. You might be the next person to share some exulting reviews or stay anonymous if you like after contacting Dr. okosun for his genuine love spell via dr. dr.okosunspellalent @ gmail. com
My name is Joy Lopes, I never thought I will smile again, My husband left me with two kids for one year, All effort to bring him back failed I thought I’m not going to see him again not until I met a lady called Jesse who told me about a spell caster called Dr.Miracle, She gave me his email address and mobile number and I contacted him and he assured me that within 48 hours my husband will come back to me, In less than 48 hours my husband came back started begging for forgiveness saying it is the devils work, so I’m still surprise till now about this miracle,i couldn’t conceive but as soon as the spell was cast,i became pregnant and gave birth to my third child(Taylor) if you need any assistance from him you can contact him via:Email (MIRACLESPELLHOME@YAHOO.COM),, or you can also contact him through his website http://miraclespellhome.wix.com/dr-miracles,,,,,,,
“My life is back!!! After 8 years of Broken marriage, my husband left me and our two twins . I felt like my life was about to end i almost committed suicide, i was emotionally down for a very long time. Thanks to a spell caster called prophet Abulele which i met online on one faithful day, as I was browsing through the internet, I was searching for a good spell caster that can solve my problems. I came across a lot of testimonies about this particular spell caster. Some people testified that he brought their ex lover back, some testified that he restores wombs, cured HIV and other sickness, some testified that he can cast a spell to stop divorce and so on. i also come across one particular testimony,it was about a woman called Christina, she testified about how prophet Abulele brought back her husband in less than 7 days and reverse the effect of their little boys cancer, and at the end of her testimony she wrote prophet. Abulele’s e-mail ad prophetess. After reading all these, I decided to give prophet. Abulele a try. I contacted him via email and explained my problem to him. In just 5 days, my husband came back to me. We solved our issues, and we are even happier than before. prophet, Abulele is really a gifted man and i will not stop publishing good about him because he is a wonderful man… If you have a problem and you are looking for a real and genuine spell caster to solve all your problems for you, contact prophet. Abulele and he will provide an everlasting solution to your problem. Here’s his contact: prophetabulelehealingtemple@gmail.com
This is a very happy day of my life because of the help prophet. Abulele has rendered to me by helping me get my ex husband back with his powerful love spell. I was married for 9 years and it was so terrible because my husband was really cheating on me and was seeking for a divorce but when i came across prophet. Abulele email on the internet on how he help so many people to get their ex back and help fixing relationship problem, i was totally convinced to contact him. I sent him an email and explained my situation to him and then seek his help but to my greatest surprise he told me that he will help me with my case and here i am now celebrating because my Husband has change totally for good. He always want to be by me and can not do anything without my presence. My sorrowful marriage has turned out to be the best because Abulele is a changed man. i will keep on testifying on the internet because prophet. Abulele is truly a real spell caster. Anyone who need his help should contact him through his email: prophetabulelehealingtemple@gmail.com
I”m Corey Edward from US Florida..This is my testimony on how my ex girlfriend come back home..i want to say a very big thanks and appreciation to Dr. Trust for bringing back my lover who left me. One day as i was browsing searching on the internet for recommend spell caster who will help me to bring my Ex Girlfriend back,Finally i met a writing how so many testimony talking about Dr. Trust who restore relationship back,so i email him and he cast the love spell,luckily within 24 hours my Girlfriend really called me and started apologizing for all she had caused me.and begging me to accept her back and we are living happily and our relationship is now very strong, I am the happiest man on earth today because Dr. Trust has done a wonderful deeds,my Gf now love and respect me. Email him for your relationship help.
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I am Jasmine Jennifer i have used every single spell worker on the internet, spent untold amounts of money and discovered they are all fakes…i was the fool though; doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results. In the end, I decided that I wanted a tarot reading to know what my future held for me; I contacted a woman who lives locally to me and she told me about a man named (dr odalo); he does not advertise on the internet, has another job for income, has no set prices, makes no false promises and refuses to help anyone that cannot be helped and even helps for free sometimes, he will give you proof before taking money. He is a wonderful man and he was the only person who actually gave me real results. I really hope he doesn’t mind me advertising his contact on the internet but I’m sure any help/ extra work will benefit him.whatsapp or call him on+2348063930531 or odalospelltemple@gmail.com He travel sometimes.he is also specialise on ,love marriage,finance, job promotion ,lottery spell, ,Law & Court case Spells,money voodoo,weigh loss voodoo,any sicknesses voodoo,Trouble in marriage,HIV AIDS,it’s all he does Hope this helps everyone that is in a desperate situation as I once was; I know how it feels to hold onto something and never have a chance to move on because of the false promises and then to feel trapped in wanting something
Without DR ODALO a lot of people would have been dead through heart break. My case is not different from heart break, I am married woman with 2 kids and there was a time when i was having problem with my husband because he was having an affair outside our marriage and this was making me feel bad. So i tried finding solution to my problem by reading a lot of relationship tips on the internet and that was how i came in contact with DR ODALO contact details and through the help of DR ODALO at odalospelltemple@gmail.com. my husband left the girl he was having affair with and he came back to me and our kids. After a job well done by DR odalo i felt that it will be unfair if i keep this secret to myself and that is why i am going to drop the contact details of DR odalo right now,or you can also reach him via this email: odalospelltemple@gmail.com or call and whatsapp him on +2348063930531
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My name is leon petty, and I base in U.S.A…My life is back!!! After 2 years of Broken marriage, my husband left me with two kids . I felt like my life was about to end i almost committed suicide, i was emotionally down for a very long time. Thanks to a spell caster called Dr Erazua, which i met online. On one faithful day, as I was browsing through the internet,I came across allot of testimonies about this particular spell caster. Some people testified that he brought their Ex lover back, some testified that he restores womb,cure cancer,and other sickness, some testified that he can cast a spell to stop divorce and so on. i also come across one particular testimony,it was about a woman called Lydia,she testified about how he brought back her Ex lover in less than 2 days, and at the end of her testimony she dropped Dr Erazua E-mail address. After reading all these,I decided to give it a try. I contacted him VIA Email and explained my problem to him. In just 48hours, my husband came back to me. We solved our issues, and we are even happier than before, Dr Erazua is really a gifted man and i will not stop publishing him because he is a wonderful man… If you have a problem and you are looking for a real and genuine spell caster to solve all your problems for you. he might be the answer to your problems. Here’s his Email dr.erazuagreattemple@hotmail.com or dr.erazuagreattemple@gmail.com or reach him on his cell mobile on +2349060424123.
I never believed in Spells or Magics until I met this special spell caster called DR DEGBONO.. The man i wanted to marry left me 3 months to our wedding ceremony and my life was upside down.he was with me for 4 years and i really love him so much..he left me for another woman with no reasons..when i called him, he never picked up my calls and he don’t want to see me around him…so,when i told the man what happened. he helped me to do some readings,and after the readings he made me to realize that the other woman has done some spells over my Husband and that is the reason why he left me..he told me he will help me to cast a spell to bring him back. At first i was skeptical but i just gave it a try…In 4 days, My Husband called me himself and came to me apologizing..I cant believe he can ever come back to me again but now i am happy he’s back and we are married now and we live as a happy family..Am posting this to the forum if anyone needs the help of this man.Can contact him through this email address : degbonotemple@gmail.com or degbonotempletemple@outlook.com or his number +13017987711